Hehehe..dis is girls' favourite topic..i know..i know..but it depends on negative or positive perspective. Past few months ago, this topic was (or stil is?) prevalently discussed publicy either in FB status or blogs, ,mostly related to happy thoughts about it. 1st question: Why we want to get married : Love? Desperation? Security? hw if u 1 2 marry a guy but u hv feelings for some other guy? or is it just the calling has come?..well, u can keep d answers to yourself. As for me honestly, yes i was excited about it during initial years of my relationship years with a guy. Somehow, at dis point of time, at dis moment after so many moments gone through, it's quite weird how i can say that i'm kinda a biiit scared of it? The cheatings stuff, the estranged ones..& the consequences..urgghh...to bear the distorted emotions is undescribable. Some can go to the extend of suicide. Dat is why, i think i'l just linger until the timing comes by itself. Dear good Lord, i abide by the rules,i nvr break anyone's heart (instead it's mine dat does frequently), i respect others' marriage so when it comes to my time, let my own be unbreakable & peacefully blissful. Amen. After quite a few things i'v gone through so far, here's my random opinion:
1. I won't judge how ready a person is for marriage especially for girls cuz personally i think that marriage is another starting point for 2 persons' personality to start grow inside through a lot of first times like 1st time cooking meals, doing chores together, sharing room, 1st quarrel, 1st misunderstanding..yada2..& list goes on..it's when we humbly admit to the mistakes then make effort to fix it that we trully grow maturely. If ppl scold me to teach responsibility for good reason, i'm thankful. If ppl bragging about how good they are at handling responsibilities, wah..i'm speechless..hahaha..Dat's why sometimes i think, God let certain things happen for a reason. Maybe He gv some1 a marriage cuz He wants those persons 2 b maturely responsible. Maybe He granted some couples a child so dat they cn learn more bout themselves from the child. Maybe He keeps some ppl single cuz He wants 'em to accomplish things they nvr had before settling down or avoid 'em frm making bad choices.
2. I will never again trust a guy whose talk is sooo convincing, no matter how devastated he claims his past relationship was,blaming his past gf..or how he can logically justifies his opinion on despising things dat guys usually do wrong and gosssh..dat sweet talks
...(bueekkss..i shud hv known it coming) but when small obstacles comes in the way, he'l b d 1st person to back down..by d end of the day, it's just a sweet talk baybeh..just words written on text messages..u can see it, u can hear it
but u can't really feel it if nothing is ever done. In fact, he can do just d same with just every1. Actions speak louder than words. I believe a true good man will always come around to fix no matter how rough the day is. There should be effort in it too.
3. A good relationship is like a good wine : it takes great effort to brew it elegantly, determination to make it perfect, or patience to reach its perfection. In the end, u'l get a nice rich taste to enjoy...
bnr sik..bnr sik?..4. My parents always say..
aba nak gago magau darik..sibier darik si ngkira dup, magau dup, mene2 ira dengen dup... I'm stil holding on to that...hehe..
And now my brain's a bit jam & i get bored edi so chow 1st til i write again...
astalavista!
